Best Curly Hair Products: Mini Mod #7: Mommy-Made Dress (yes made by me, feel free to complement!)

I've been wanting to make my daughter a dress since before she was born. I have a sewing machine thanks to my fabulous in-laws, some knowledge of sewing thanks to my dog, who encouraged me to learn, and an idea of what looks cute thanks to my fabulous daughter. My husband encourages me because it means less money spent on boutique clothing, and less time to spend it because I'm fumbling around on my dang machine.

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Dress: Made by yours truly, pattern from Designs by Elliette; Shoes from Cambria Laine

Ok, continuing on...

This is the first dress I made my daughter. I'm not counting this one because it sucked, and at a birth weight of 9lbs 9oz she couldn't even squeeze her big self into it. Don't even look at it. It wasn't cute. In fact, I'm sorta embarrassed that I just took to time to look that up and link it. YIKES!

DO OVER! That's what this was.

My motivation? Wanting a cute Halloween dress that didn't cost an arm and a leg. With how many things she has (and my desire for her to wear something different every day at school) I knew she'd only wear this thing once or twice at best. She'd be too big next year and what if our next baby is born a different time of year or is a boy? Homemade seasonal dress= problem solved!

I'm also sick of people asking me if I made her outfits and having to say "no." Can't I for once say yes?!

I added "take sewing lessons" to my "to do before #2" list and my dear friend Jennie answered my call. I'm not sure if this is because she has six kids and wants me to hurry and catch up, or just because she's nice and wants to teach a man to fish--or in my case, a mother to sew.

We had a few tweets that went something like this:

Jennie: "Come to my house and I'll teach you to sew!"
Me: "Really? You can help me? Can you make anything? And by anything I mean baby dresses."
Jennie:"Of course I can make anything, I rock"... Or something like that, I can't remember. All I know is that she said she could help me and I needed to choose a pattern.

A pattern? Oh no... Those are the death of me!

When I think of patterns I think of searching fabric stores with my grandmother, looking at pictures of outfits I liked then watching her pin fabric to tissue paper over and over again. Things that seem way to complicated for someone like me!

I emailed her about 20 patterns, a variety, knot dresses, and variations of pillowcase dresses. My favorite, a back-tie dress was the link on the top. My friend wrote back saying we could do my favorite.

Really? That's not too hard?!

The designer on Etsy said a beginner could do it but I'm lower than a beginner, I'm like a hopeless soul aspiring for the impossible.

I bought it anyway.

I downloaded the pattern and read all 23 pages of ~~Latin~~ pattern speak. I didn't understand half of it.

Discouraged, I messaged my friend, and asked if she understood it. Sure she wouldn't, I prepared myself for disappointment. But to my surprise she wrote back and said it was easy enough, and I could do it.

Lil' J and I went to the fabric store and picked out fabric for two dresses. I intentionally picked a fall and Halloween style because it would put me on a deadline to finish NOW.

I wrote to the pattern creator and asked about how long she thought it would take and she estimated two hours. I'm not sure if she meant for me or her but my friend doubled that estimate for us.

Monday morning I packed up my sewing stuff, dropped Lil' J off at school and headed up to Jennie's. I needed to focus and no way Lil' J would let me do that for four hours. She'd have more fun at school and I'd pick her up just after her nap.

Jennie was a fantastic teacher and I left learning a few very important things about sewing:

1. Cutting takes way longer than you'd expect. Measure twice, cut once.
2. Good scissors are some of the most important things in sewing.
3. I've got to get me one of those cool pin cushion bracelets.
4. And a bigger cutting board.
5. Ironing, though a pain, is pretty important.
6. You don't need a rufflier, you can make your own ruffles by sewing two straight lines and pulling the fabric across.

She translated sewing words for me like "baste" "on the fold" "selvage" and helped me find short cuts, and understand the pattern. But she let me do all the work myself.

Sure, there are some mistakes. But you wouldn't notice unless you were looking. No, the quality isn't as great as what I get from boutiques, but it's cute and I made it. Yep. I made it. And seriously, if I can make this so can you. Don't you dare say you can't. Just try it!

The pattern, and fabric for two dresses was about $22. I had enough left over fabric to make her a matching sash, and bow. I also added some decorative buttons for fun.

The best part is now? When someone asks me if I made my daughter's dress, finally, I can smile big and proud and say "Yes!"

... And then hopefully they won't then say: "I can tell."

What do you think? Be honest!... Only if you like it.

Link up to Mini Mod below so I can check out your cuties! Mini Mod of the week is Jayden and Sheena from Sophistishe repping some adorable clothes for little boys. Check out her blog to see what he's wearing, then link up your Friday Fashionista/o below.